How to turn your ideas into reality

There are 7 levels that you must unlock and move through when grounding your incredible, creative ideas and inspiration into reality.

The first level is safety & security.

You already have the key inside you to unlock this level but you maybe haven’t found it yet so if you’re reading this, take it as a sign that it's time for you to find it and unlock yourself.

If you grew up in an environment where you were always trying to make things right, always trying to please people, always trying to identify issues before they arose just to avoid the conflict, if you felt powerless to other people’s moods and you were always trying to be good and not make mistake, it’s likely that you never really felt safe.

Your life was not at risk but you lived in the fight/flight mode a lot. Events may have taken place when you were a child, that even now in adulthood, feel like they were your fault.

You may never have felt truly loved and like you were never enough or too much. You may have craved belonging and you still haven’t found it. You may be still trying to prove your worth to everyone.

As a result of your life experiences so far, you are hyper aware of other people’s moods and behaviour. A change in tone of voice makes you internally question whether you did something wrong. A text message that goes unanswered makes you question whether you are a pain in the ass that people don’t want to hear from….

If at any time you have experienced any of these, you will know that you have lived a lot of your life living on an emotional edge. You have never really felt safe and you have been pursuing that sense of safety and security in areas outside of yourself. Like money. Like success. Like relationships. And yet, you have not found it.

That is because safety and security are an inside job. They are also fundamental to bring your ideas into reality. Even Abraham Maslow knew how important safety and security were, he had them as the second level of his hierarchy of needs, after basic physiological needs like food, water, air etc.

So how do you create the feeling of safety in your life?

Step 1: Decide what you actually want

So often people are looking for emotional and financial freedom or success because they sound like great things to have accomplished but they don’t really know what it means for them.

What does emotional freedom mean for you? Does it mean no longer struggling with anxiety or feeling like life should be more than this?

What is financial freedom? The actual financial definition is when you have enough assets producing an income that covers the cost of the lifestyle you want, without having to work…Do you even know what the lifestyle you want costs? I bet you don’t. So price it up and get clear. It’s not all Porsche’s, Rolexes, yachts and private jets but it might be - so work out what you want your lifestyle to look like and what it costs.

Now you know what you’re aiming for, summarise what you truly want to create in your life.

Step 2: Find the beliefs you hold that are not supporting the reality you want to create.

Don’t mistake this for having blocks, or for there being something wrong with you. You have lived your life which has provided experiences that have created the beliefs you have. This does not mean that your beliefs are true. It’s just what you have experienced or have been told other people have experienced.

The life you want is available to you otherwise you wouldn’t be aware of it. There are other people in the world who have achieved it - if they can, so can you. You are worthy of all that you desire and you have the power to create anything.

Journaling is a really cool way to do this and I have created some journal prompts which will allow you to delve deeply into this in the Playbook for my Safety & Security: Unlocked webinar which is completely free, but for now ask yourself why you don’t believe the reality you want is possible for you.

Then use EFT (tapping) to tap on those beliefs that you have to clear them or join me on the webinar where I will use a little energy magic to help you clear them.

Step 3: Change your behaviours to support the creation of the reality you want

Your existing behaviour has got you this far. However, if you want a different reality it is time to take different action and change those behaviours.

What do you regularly do that does not support where you are trying to get to?

We want to make these changes gently so that we don’t freeze (the relative of fight/flight). Slowly, is far more supportive of the nervous system and the subconscious mind. We are looking for stretch not struggle. Stretching your comfort zone, rather than catapulting you out of it where you end up taking no action at all.

We want to create behaviours that support you achieving the life you want and we will start with creating behaviours that support you.

How well are you looking after yourself? Are you sleeping? Eating well? Moving your body? Hydrated? Grounding regularly? Checking in with your intuition and meditating to improve the communication between you and your higher self?

If the answer to those is no - start there. Basic self care is the foundation of security. When you care for yourself well, you feel better, you prove to yourself that you can change, which builds self trust which builds the energy and momentum to create bigger change and taking action steps towards creating the life you want.

Step 4: Let go of what isn’t working

We cannot create the reality we desire whilst primarily living our life doing things we don’t desire - it’s just a simple law of the Universe. Let me ask for something but do the absolute opposite…..just doesn’t work.

So where is the struggle in your life? Where are you trying to force your round self into a square peg? How can you stop doing that? Where are you doing thing/spending time with people/behaving in ways which make you feel like shit? Stop them, drop them, free yourself asap.

If you are ready to really get your safety and security level unlocked so you can go on to unlock the rest of the levels to create the reality you desire, join me for the Safety & Security: Unlocked webinar.

You will be sent the Playbook to work through, be able to participate in a Live Q&A or submit your question if you can’t join me live and experience some of my energy magic to help you clear the way and move forward. And it is all completely free. Come hang out, you might find it’s exactly what you’ve been looking for.